Monday, September 24, 2012

Alexey - exactly 4 1/2



 


It is hard to believe how quickly lex is growing up. She is such a fun little person. I love having her home with me.


Lex is a great age! She is obedient, easy going and playful. She is old enough to be a good helper and a good example. 


 
She loves babies. She wants to play with Austin when he is here and any other baby she can get her hands on.

She is also a good playmate for Clare. They love to put on shows and do other activites together.   I love watching the girls play together. They are so great.

 That being said, she is the least forgiving of Calvin. When he is throwing a fit/having a bad day, she will tease him and make it worse. If he is in a bad mood and calls her a name, she will call him a name back. If he teases her, she will hit him.  When Calvin is having a bad day and I'm trying to get him to settle down I will sometimes bribe lex to go read a book in her room or watch a movie on my laptop or something just to get her out of his way so he can cool down.  She cracks me up!

Lexey can entertain herself very well. If I am busy at home, cooking, cleaning, reading, doing other things...she will play with herself so nicely. Sometimes I feel like I need to pay more attention to her because she can honestly play for hours by herself.

Lexey is beautiful! She has gorgeous blue eyes and curly hair! 


Lex loves to wear dresses. She rotates between a few clothes that she loves and even though she has a drawer full of clothes if she can't find what she likes she insists she has nothing to wear.

Lex loves music. She loves to sing and she loves the piano. She plays piano every day. She is not taking lessons- she is too young - but she mimics clare's scales and some other simple songs.  I often wonder if she will love it even after we start lessons and make her practice every day. I hope so!

Lex has a few things going on her life this year.

Monday - Wee sing - the preschool group of Kids Sing. I teach the class at our home. There are 10 kids in the class. She is the oldest and enjoys being a leader.

Monday - speech. Towards the end of last year I had lexey tested through the school district and she qualified for speech. She does this at our local elementary school right at the end of the school day so that I dont' have to make an extra trip down to school to pick up Clare.

Tues/Thrusday- "joy school" This year lexey is in a preschool swap. It is T/Th 9-noon. There are 7 kids (6 moms). and we each take turns teaching for a week. Our curriculum is from Funshine express. Lex is the oldest in this class also.  There are a couple of kids who just turned three this month who are pretty young and one pretty busy boy so it makes for a busy group. I'm sure they will settle down as the months go by.

Friday - gymnastics.  Lexey has a darling teacher  named YuFei who was a gymnast in China and moved her about a year ago.  Her english is tough to understand but she is really darling with the kids.  She is enrolled through November.  I am not sure if I am going to be willing to pay for her to continue!  At age 4 I don't mind her practicing rolling and bouncing around at home and on the playground!


Lexey loves Jo. She likes to entertain her and play with her and be silly and make her laugh. She is a good helper too. Sometimes Lex is a little too hands on and she will push Jo to the point that she screams and wants to be left alone. Overall though Lex is great.  I took a bunch of pics one afternoon of the two of them playing on the skateboard.  It is sweet to see lexey push jo, help her on, help her off and be such a great playmate! She has such a good heart.














 


 
 
 
Another evening .. .giving Jo hugs!
 
Jo says thanks so much now stop touching me!


Sunday, September 23, 2012

lots of posts coming

I have been behind on my blogging lately, but have been catching up! More posts soon.

An update on each member of the family and some other catching up to do!

Saturday, September 22, 2012

jo - 14 months



Jo is so sweet! She is also becoming quite a handful.  No longer is she the sweet, easy quiet baby who I can take anywhere and hardly know she is even with me. No longer is she the sweet, easy, quiet baby who sits in the living room and plays for hours and watches her sisters play.  She is a real person now!  It is fun to watch her transform from baby to toddler.

Now Jo talks NON - STOP!! She knows only a few words:
"hi"
"uh" "uh" "uh"
"yah"
"again"
"food/drink" (sign language)
"uh-oh"
"oooohhhhhhh" (name for tressel, other babies, or anything else she thinks is cute)
"night-night"
"all done" (sign and word)
She also thinks she is starving and thirsty every second of the day, even if she did just eat!  She loves most food.  She loves her bottle with milk. She loves all fruit. She loves ice cream :)
Jo loves Dave's spaghetti. I have been married to dave 12 years and he recently told me he knows how to make spaghetti. 

 
Jo loves her cousin Austin.


Just waking up from a nap on a super hot day. (here in SD it is in the 90's all through september- YUCK!)





 




 



Jo really loves Tressel. She also loves to feed him. He thinks this is great and always comes around when she is eating knowing that she is pretty good at sharing with him.

She uses these words in combination to make sentences/demands. For example, "ooooohhhhhh, uh" means where is tressel, or where is the baby (if we have one playing at our house).

All day she points at things and says uh,uh.uh,uh...and then you say, "oh, do you want to see that?" and she says "yah".  Super cute. Very demanding.


Jo crawls like a maniac, goes up and down the stairs like a pro and wanders all around. She can do a front roll. She can stand up without holding on to anything. She puts her head down on the ground with her cute little bottom in the air and then stands up in the middle of the room.  Jo has taken a few steps but isn't walking yet.  She could take off any day!

Jo sleeps a lot still. She sleeps 7pm-7am at night. Naps from 9:15-11:30 and again from 1-3.  She still sleeps in my closet. She has a noise machine in there on ocean noise. She also has a special blanket she uses to sleep.  I have learned a few things over the years and one which is when your child has a favorite lovie for sleep it is wise to have more than one. So, for Jo, before she was born we made her 8 mini blankets for her to sleep with.  one of her blue mini-blankets is behind her in this picture.




She is delightful. We all love her.

She is starting to really love Dave.  When he comes home she says hi...hi.....hi....hi....hi over and over again until he comes in and acknowledges her and picks her up and says hi back.

She loves to laugh at Lexey. Lex will make silly faces or do silly dances to entertain her. I can also put Jo in Lexey's room and she'll babysit her for me.

Jo sometimes gets really frustrated and throws a fit. She will either tense up and remain sitting, or if she is completely upset will through herself on the ground face down! It is really funny.  This is jo being frustrated. (She is flexing her legs)



Jo is into everything. She empties cupboards and dumps out stuff that is left out and about.  She likes to put things away too so it is easy to entertain her during mess up time and clean up time!

the dave and denise book club

Dave listens to tons of books during his commute.  I listen to books while I walk and sometimes while I clean the house if the kids are asleep, gone or watching tv.  Dave is in the car a lot more than I am able to listen so  I can't really keep up with him as far as reading goes. Also, we don't have exactly the same taste in books but there have been quite a few books we've read sequentially and recently we even read one simultaneously which was fun.


Anna Karenina -

we read this 4 years ago.  We both loved it.  He read it about a year before me.  He sympathized with Anna and hated Karenin. I sympathized with Karenin and hated Anna. We've had many a heated debate about this book!   In Dave's top few favorites of all time.
Dave 10/10
Denise 9/10


Into Thin Air- 


About a year ago we both read this story about  climbing Mt. Everest. Dave read it a few months before I did.  He talked to me a bit about it and I saw that he was using his spare time to read about mountaineering and climbing and travel.  I got a little worried that he would want to go do something crazy like climb mt. Everest. He is the kind of person that would feel the need to "prove" he could do anything.   A few months later when I read the book I became COMPLETELY obsessed with the story. I spent every spare minute reading about Everest, climbing, reading news articles about the author and other authors who wrote about Everest. The story is so consuming it is hard to think about much else. Dave and I had fun discussing the different people who participated in the hike, the mistakes that were made and the amazing story-telling skill of Jon Krakauer.  I picked up an illustrated edition at the library so that I could see the people in the story. Since it was a real story I didn't feel my imagination was adequate. I really needed to meet Rob Hall, Andy Harris, Beck Wethers, and each and every other person on the trip.  I cried when certain people died. (even though you know that it is a tragic event from the outset of the book I will not spoil it by telling you anything about who dies and how they die).  

Can you believe the top of Mt. Everest is as high as you fly in the air in an airplane? Can you imagine being that high up? INSANE!


Dave 8/10
Denise 9/10

The Woman in White

- This is quite possibly my favorite book of all time. For years, Dave has been reluctant to read any book with the word "woman" in the title.  However, after much coaxing and after my third read of the book this year, I convinced dave that it was worth a try. Also, one of our mutual friends (who is male) loves the book. plus, dave did like Jane Eyre.  Dave plugged through the book but felt like he was suffering the entire time. He admits the description of Fosco is clever and fun. Aside from that, he was not impressed. Boo!

Dave - 4/10
Denise 10/10




North and South - I LOVED this book.   Such a great love story. plus there is a substantial real story that goes along with the love story so I though for sure Dave would like this one. No such luck. It was about 3 years ago I sent him with this book on a business trip. He called me after a couple of days saying, "YOU TRICKED ME!!!"  I totally did not mean to trick him. I thought it might be a chick book we could both like.



If you haven't seen this BBC movie, you should! It is amazing!

Denise 9/10
Dave - never finished and didn't rank





 

Einstein biography by Walter Isaacson -


This has been one of the best books I've read in years. It is very inspirational and very educational. I loved learning about how Einstein's mind worked and to see his path. It is amazing to see how he became one of the most influential scientists of all time.  He couldn't even find a job when he graduated college!  I have laughed out loud countless times as I have been reading and walking.  One of the funniest parts/(sad also) of the book to me was when Einstein and Maric were first having marriage problems he gave her a list of conditions for her to agree to so that they could stay married. Funniest thing I've ever read.  I will copy it here.

Conditions.
A. You will make sure
  1. that my clothes and laundry are kept in good order;
  2. that I will receive my three meals regularly in my room;
  3. that my bedroom and study are kept neat, and especially that my desk is left for my use only.
B. You will renounce all personal relations with me insofar as they are not completely necessary for social reasons. Specifically, you will forego
 1. my sitting at home with you;
 2. my going out or traveling with you.
C. You will obey the following points in your relations with me;
  1. You will not expect any intimacy from me, nor will you reproach me in any way
 2. you will stop talking to me if I request it;
  3. you will leave my bedroom or study immediately without protest if I request it.
D. You will undertake not to belittle me in front of our children either through words or behavior.

  Another part of the book I loved was Einsteins description of his faith.  Einstein believed both religiously and scientifically that the world has order. Whether or not we can observe and describe it, there are laws that govern how the world works.  "God does not play dice."  I love this Einstein quote:  "the highest satisfaction of a scientific person is to come to the realization that God Himself could not have arranged these connections any other way than that which does exist, any more than it would have been in His power to make four a prime number."  Einsteins believe in God was an integral part of his scientific reasoning throughout his entire life.

I too have always had a strong belief in the Creator and in the idea that the order and beauty of the universe testify of the hand of Christ in creating the world.  I love the scripture in Alma 30 where Korihor is asking Alma for a sign that there is a god.....  But Alma said unto him: Thou hast had signs enough; will ye tempt your God? Will ye say, Show unto me a sign, when ye have the testimony of  all these thy brethren, and also all the holy prophets? The scriptures are laid before thee, yea, and all things denote there is a God; yea, even the earth, and all things that are upon the face of it, yea, and its motion, yea, and also all the planets which move in their regular form do witness that there is a Supreme Creator.

I had a hard time keeping up with the physics described in the book.  That is why for me it is not a 10/10. It is no shortcoming of the book or the author or the topic. I just got confused sometimes.

Dave loves physics and is super good at math so he got more out of the physics than I did. dave read it and thought that he could have been a physicist (not necessarily and Einstein but could have made a career as a theoretical physicist)!  \I read it and was in awe of how Einsteins mind worked.

Dave 9/10
Denise 8/10




Atlas Shrugged -
 Dave LOVES this book. He convinced me to try it.  I struggled through the first 500 pages of this book. I thought I would barf if I heard anything else about trains. Ahhhh!  That being said, after giving up the book over a year ago, I am now starting to miss a couple of the characters and want to go back to the book and see what happens to them. I will need to finish this at some point.

Dave 10/10
Denise - not finished











Les Miserables-  

Dave has read this book but I have not. Here is a converstation we had about this book.

Denise: Sometimes I feel like a bad person becuase I haven't read this book.
Dave: You are

dave 10/10
denise not read yet
 

Sunday, September 2, 2012

mom's birthday

Tomorrow is Mom's birthday. She would be 55 years old. She died 13 years ago at age 41. It is a long time ago. Below are pictures of Dan and Mom -- we gathered up a few pics to include in a photo book he took on his mission.  As I get older 41 is seeming super young. At the time, when I was 19, I thought 41 was pretty old! :)  How things change. At the time Mom passed away Dan was only 7. So sad! I can't imagine #1 growing up with no mother as dan did and #2 leaving my children motherless at such a young age. So tragic and yet it is just part of what all of us experience in life. Everyone has trials, suffering, sadness and difficulty. Nobody has a blissful life -even if it appears that way from time to time. 
 
I have always loved President Hinckley and his attitude about life. “Life is just like an old time rail journey ... delays, sidetracks, smoke, dust, cinders, and jolts, interspersed only occasionally by beautiful vistas and thrilling bursts of speed. The trick is to thank the Lord for letting you have the ride.” Life is a great ride. There is so much to be enjoyed and to experience.
 
One neat thing my Mom did after she learned she had cancer and would be dying is that she prepared some things to be left behind to her kids. She wrote letters to be sent to the missionary kids, wrote a personal history and made quilts for the kids and baby blankets for the grand kids. Such treasures!
 
I think it is neat that she was able to stay so focused on the important things in life. I suppose the illness helped her to do so, but a lot of credit goes to mom and her determination.  It would have been easy to enjoy the last 2 years of life, spend time with family and do meaningful things. She did that and then more, going above and beyond to make sure her legacy and testimony were left behind.
 
I was reading in "letters from mom" last night and loved her letter about God's love. In the scriptures God's love is compared to fruit trees -- easy to reach, very abundant and available to everyone.  Also, the straight and narrow path that leads to the fruit tree is described. Mom pointed out that the path is straight and narrow - not to restrict us  but to keep us safe. Satan's influence is all around us. The only way to be really safe is to stay close to God.  To make it as simple as possible, it is a straight and narrow path. Easy to find and easy to stay on.    And yet, it is also so easy to wander off the path and get lost. It was a good reminder to me that I need to be more diligent in sticking to the path  - doing the "daily's" and making sure that my priority is really what I know I want most.
 
 



best family pic of all time!



mom and pete
 

mom and scott
 mom and dan -cutest picture!

mom, pete and dan on the tramp



Speaking of Dan, here is ELDER DAHLQUIST!!  He went to the MTC Aug 15th and leaves the MTC for Spokane tomorrow Sept 3rd.  It didn't hit me 'til just now as I write this that it is sort of significant that it is Mom's birthday tomorrow too. She must be so happy for him.

 
 
My kids think it is so fun to go to the cemetary  -- so tomorrow for Mom's birthday we'll head over with some flowers to visit Mom on her birthday!